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Originally Posted by raki™ 
First off. I did not react in a negative way, reacting negatively could spell insecurity to what i exude ('the player vibe'). What I'm thinking is that i should be someone who is in control of his faculties, even the vibe i give off. And that i'm perfectly comfortable with whatever that is and that i make no excuses off it nor phased by it nor find it a disadvantage. If that's how i come off then that's how i come off. Nothing beats attraction more than insecurity (maybe there are others, but i'm sure insecurity is included in there if there ever were a list).
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..anyway, there is something similar in S3 where a girls calls you cheezy. And Vin's solution is to shrug it off and totally ignore the 'bad behavior' and say "What did you say baby? Did you say cheeze? I love cheeze" or something like that.. and his reason was that it won't put emphasis on being called cheezy, you're not reacting in a negative way, totally ignoring the 'negative' comment and amping up the interaction.