[Mr. Mojo]

Here's three questions for the phone game video response:

1. My wings and I are always debating about this: Should I take her number, exchange or just give her mine?
Personally I am always for exchanging, especially because it happened to me more than once that a set that went really great did not call back and I just like to be able to control the situation. But I can see how only giving my number telegraphs non-neediness and when she calls you know it's really on. So please elaborate on that.

2. How much time should you spend on the phone or how many sms should you send, before you set a date up? I know that it should just flow naturally from the conversation over messages or phone, but a general guide line when things are not running that smooth would be great.

3. How do you go about sparking sexual tension over the phone/sms and how much of it should you let be built up?
I find that especially the start up is hard. I've had great sms trials with girls going all the way to sms sex and I laid those chicks afterwards. But those were chicks where I just knew from the way they were that they were into it. How do you get girls into it (sexual tension, sex fantasies) that are not that open to those things usually?

Thanks in advance and keep up the great work Vin,

Mr. Mojo