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Originally Posted by Orleans It's controversial but Gunwitch nailed it: "Make the ho say no." |
The point of Gunwitch's "Make the ho say no" is not so much to be demeaning to women, but to remind you that you need to lead ALL THE TIME. When you are escalating, as long as you show a comfortable vibe to her, it's up to you to move up the ladder at your own pace when YOU want. Most girls will not take the lead and give you the green light and say "OK, you can touch me there now... OK, you can go ahead and move further."
If you want to look for subtle cues, you may check if she reciprocates your touch. If she does, you should be able to move up to the next class. However this is not a sure way to gauge a woman's "readiness" level.
I think what a lot of guys forget is that a woman bases her reaction mostly on your own comfort level with the escalation. If you ramp up the ladder and show total comfort (as in it's not a big deal to you), most of the time, she'll allow you to move on. If you pay close attention to her body language, you will notice when she slowly gets nervous or when she twiches from being uncomfortable with you. At that point, you just need to slow down or pause for a while.