Hey Jeff!
Thanks for the kind words...
Sounds like you're doing things automatically instead of overthinking, which is the whole point. I loved working with you, and have I have a couple points of personal feedback for you if you'd like to email me.
As far as your approaches, you recognized that you COULD'VE taken them further, which most guys aren't aware of, so you have the edge. Now take action. As far as what to convey with women, drop the seriousness and overanalysis, and just shoot the shit like we were doing at the greek restaurant. It wasn't until we got to chill and you let your guard down that I got to see what a cool, interesting guy you really are. Until that point, I had no idea, and I think it was because you hide behind an analytical/'smart' persona. If you can show that to women, you'll be in great shape.
Don't worry about conveying intrigue or mystery. It will come out naturally. Those are things you already have, and all you can really do is fuck them up.
Do the drills at your leisure (about once a week, 10-20 minutes, rotate which ones you do). But once in the field, drop all theory and technique and just focus on meeting women without ANY persona, and staying in a very relaxed, playful state. That's how it's gonna happen for you brother.
Take care.
Brian  |