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Originally Posted by El Cuchillo  "I don't try to be a challenge. I like to get to know people, and when people put an effort in the communication I reward them and they like it and it moves it forward. I qualify them, I give approval and they enjoy my company because they feel comfortable around me. I give my gift which is sex, bonding, approval, etc. When I see a window of opportunity I capitalize on it and approach and move things forward in a way that's intriguing and comfortable because of my Warm Dominance."
I understand this conceptually but haven't quite mastered how to start bringing this technique into fruition. Could you give examples of how you would do this when you first meet a women through the first couple of dates?
how do you reward them? a high five, a simple thank you, kino?
how to you qualify & give approval - oh you're a writer, I think that's cool that you can express yourself that way. I like that (is that close?)
If you could give some examples of the wordings that would be awesome...
thanks
cuchillo |
Me: What do you like to do?
Her: Nothing much just hang out.
(that's a superficial way of answering)
Me: No, forreal tho.
Her: Well, I like draw animals, I'm just so interested in them. (she puts effort so I'm threading the convo so I can reward her.)
Me: Do you have any pets?
Her: Yeah a cock a tail bird that I always feed and talk to.
Me: That's interesting and I like that. You must have good nuturing skills. (reward)
ok it doesn't look fancy and there are not big super cool lines but underneath it all, you're really bringing a person up and making them feel like they proven their value.
its like Brian said it in the Inner Game forum. Women are always requesting. They look you're way, the wear nice outfits, they're attractive, etc. Those are forms of requesting for you're gifts. Sex, bonding, intimacy, attention, etc.