More On This | | Looking back at this post I have to say. Self-reassurance should not be done on the field. Why? because it will fuck up your game. When you're on the field, you're should be totally cleared of negative and positive thoughts. You should be immersed in the moment. A person whose good at picking up women doesn't need to pump himself up with positive thoughts, he simply does it. Save the self-reassurance when you're reflecting if you become frustrated after on the field game.
Also, like Brian said, which I pondered on. You don't need to reassure yourself to reassure others.
Reassure them, bring them up, escalate. |