Not sure I totally understand your question, but as far as having to stop the interaction because something comes up/logistics don't allow, I don't think that's much of an issue as far as whether or not you use sexual tension. In fact, creating tension will prevent her from flaking - me and Vin just worked on a big article on flaking that talks about that. The only thing to keep in mind is that you shouldn't kiss her unless you are isolated for sex.
As far as implanting things in her head, that's not really a useful focus. Once you get basic sexual tension down, you can have fun using charged language. Something about the way you said "implanting stuff in her head" makes me think you might have missed the point...
Brian |