[SamC]

Clark,

Your pseudonym implies much more than your entry. Your problem seems complex for you, even though your blog is short. Let me break this down:

You obviously attend Harvard, which I, as well as you know, is not going to get you laid, nor is it as profound as people think in the intelligence community (forgive me, I know, I have many typos. I write in stream of consciousness).

You are ambiguous as to whether you want you get laid, find a girlfriend, love, etc.

You obviously are a smart gentleman (the guys from Harvard I meet that are insecure assholes are much addicted to therapy, drugs, egomania or a combination).

If you would like to meet women to get laid, stray from your normal routines. Fail, learn and apply. If you would like to meet women like yourself, stay within your routine, venture outside your environment, fail, learn and apply.

Got it?

Best wishes,
Sam C.