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Old 01-05-2008, 04:53 AM
dman dman is offline
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Originally Posted by authenticallyme View Post
i agree about the forums 'overall and encompassing' purpose.......but it seems like no one here will step out and validate some of the things im reading. while i can now appreicate there is a process and depth here that although i may not understand, still exists-i ALSO read things (like on the homepage for Vic) about a testimonial where a dude got his chick to do a threesome. im sure he has all kinds of 'she-really-wanted-to's" to back it up, but sorry, i see some of the tactics here used to manipulate. not every post; not by everyone....but i do see it, and it is hurtful to me as a woman, and it also saddens me.......for other women, and even the men who use these tactics.
You do a lot of assuming here I've noticed, it is as if you are actively looking for something that offends you by taking on your own assumptions that will help support your viewpoint and further rile you up. Do you know anything at all about that threesome, as to if she want to or not? Or what he said, if anything "manipulative" was used. You see from my point of view, based on my extensive experience with the community, my first natural assumption is that she does like it and he didn't do anything "manipulative".


Oh, and please stop using the phrase "decrassified". It is highly insulting to me and everybody else here, is disrespectful for you to carry on using it. Thanks.
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