Like I’ve said before I’m new to the community and don’t even consider myself a PUA but I’m going to tell you a story that changed my perception of women and dating in general:
I met this girl who looking back was not that pretty she just had a nice Rack, white skin and dyed blonde hair (I’m crazy about blondes even when they’re not natural). So we hit off started to make out and then she stops and tells me -"Listen I really want to have sex with you but you have such an amazing boyfriend material cant we just take things slower?"
Being the dumbass I was back then I agreed and then started to date her bringing her flowers, writing her songs and all that crap women are supposed to like and then two weeks later my best friend told me he had fuck her in every way possible. It was on a Party I left early and he was resting on a couch nearly wasted when she comes and tells him -"hey do you like my new chap stick?" and planted him a kiss before he could answer of course he wouldn’t refuse the offer of free pussy in front of him so he went ahead and take her after sex she told him how he shouldn’t tell me because it would hurt my feelings and shit like that but he went on and tell me and I didn’t hold it against him because I would have done the same thing.
Then I realized women are players just as men are and in this game you’re either a king or a pawn, now I’m not saying your case is the same as mine
I’m just saying even if she meant it women most of the time doesn’t know what they want so you should focus less on what they want and more on what you want.  |