I spent lots of time last autumn developing my inner game and exploring behaviors I thought useful. The last month I've been more out in the real world observing with the intention to make decisions and act.
And I've noticed that I'm much more in control and that I'm the one leading ALL interactions. And its because I do what Brian and Freeverse says here.
However it takes knowledge to be able to do it. A year ago I really couldn't do it because it didn't matter how much I observed, I just couldn't see some things. Now I see so much more and its because I did drop a lot of stupid preconceptions about the world and people in it. And I also know much more about how to interpret the very tiny pieces of information that people send out. I'm not super skilled yet but suddenly I feel like I have vision. |