Brian - your feedback is well taken. Some friends of mine who are very successful with women have said something similar. That is, they tell me to simply "let go" and allow interaction to take place without thinking about it. Being a very cerebral and introspective person, "letting go" is extremely difficult for me. Thanks to your help in bootcamp and my subsequent outings with Yeayea and other PUAs, I am slowly reprogramming myself.
Flow - wonderful suggestions! You just gave me some tangible variables to work with! I can easily assess whether people around me are happier when I am present. In fact, they are - far more than my pre-bootcamp days. My greatest challenge is my propensity to be too serious and inability to relax. Consequently, I have continuously attract women intially, but they lose interest in me very quickly because I fail to thread the conversations well and lead the conversation to more pleasurable topics. Threading is difficult when you have a serious personality. But I am getting better. I just need to practice.
Speaking of practice, I have a date tomorrow with a cute college professor at my school. Prior to bootcamp, I could never approach her. Today, I successfully engaged her in conversation, isolated her in her office so we could have one-on-one interaction privately, applied level 1 kino on two or three occassions during the conversation, and maintained strong eye contact most of the time.
Today was the first time I was able to lead the conversation by threading to topics she and I enjoyed talking about. Somehow, words such as "hard," "penetrating," "boobs" (her words, not mine), and "having fun together" all surfaced.
I had her comply to my request in seeing my office by saying, "Would you like to see where I am?" (in context). While there, she was looking at all of my books and, to my surprise, was impressed with my bookcase devoted to statistics & mathematics. Afterwards, she did something I did not expect. Instead of sitting in a second chair I have in my office, she sat on my desk facing me, smiling. I then told her that I had a meeting I had to go to (which I did), but also asked her out. She complied. Let's see how she complies tomorrow when I try to apply more kino and subliminal, sexual dialogue.
