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Originally Posted by Pickup Professor  BigCojones -
Many thanks for your post. As I am still relatively new to PU, can you spell-out all of your abbreviations so I can get a better understanding of what you said?
Thanks.
AR
C&F
GWM
HSE
HV
IE
IRL
IOW
JWS
LD
LSE
LTR
SE |
haha I know, too many acronyms. Not all are even PUA terms. I'll take a stab at this for you Pickup Professor, but I can't fill you in on all of those.
C&F - Cocky Funny. Exactly what it implies. A way of interacting with girls to give them a laugh while communicating that you are confident and don't take their shit.
GWM - Gunwitch Method. A PUA who's style was all about sexual state. He advocated that all you need to do is use a more natural, conversational method while projecting a strong sexual state. Then just bounce with the girl and F her.
SE, LSE, HSE - self esteem, low self esteem, high self esteem.
IE - just i.e. - that is to say, in other words
IOW - in other words
LTR - long term relationship.
...and I don't know the others.
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Originally Posted by BigCojones TI have felt no real desire for sex with women either, but have been VERY HAPPY eitherway. Been happy just coming home and jerking off. |
Yikes! I can relate to you on having your social game kick ass and not having your sexual game strong enough because that's me. However, if I found myself saying the above quote I think I would be worried for myself.
I can kind of see what your saying on the whole sexual value vs. social value thing... but I'll be honest, I don't completely buy it.
With the situation where the girl has sex with you but says not to tell anyone-- I suppose that situation could happen if you're some kind of socially retarded nerd that just happens to be good at having sex (seems like it would be rare). But wouldn't being a good lover make you more socially valuable? I think this situation is more common with the guy who has sex with fat chicks to validate himself but doesn't want his buddies to find out.
I think there are other reasons girls would want to keep sex a secret like not wanting to be seen as a slut, not wanting a boyfriend to find out (through others knowing), or just wanting the privacy respected.
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Originally Posted by BigCojones PUA tries to sturr up emotions and get sex that way. Thinks Emotional Value = Sexual Value |
Is this really a "confused example"? I think that in order to have good sex you have to be able to not only be dominant, but also be able to strongly engage a girl's emotions. Maybe you're talking about something else when you say emotional value, but I think that emotional value is highly correlated with sexual value.
Not trying to tear apart your post. It was interesting and got me thinking so I thank you for posting it here.