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Hey man, good post and great story. Few things came to mind reading it though.

It sounds like you definitely put a lot of effort and thought into the night, maybe too much in some areas.

When you mentioned that you had reviewed the policy on professors dating, and told her about it, she busted up laughing. The first thing that came to mind was; you asked her on a date and then reviewed the policy to see if it was alright, to her it would most likely seem the same way, you go to one dinner and already you're looking at the school policy on dating.

Three of the main things I remember from my boot camp with Brian are: You're inviting her into your reality she's a guest, your dick is a present to these girls, and thirdly; lead the damn interaction.

Invite her into your world, just because it was valentines day doesn't mean you have to go to dinner, I haven't taken a girl to dinner in years.

Most of my dates, I'll meet at a local coffee shop (great date for Kino and leading) then maybe take her for a short walking tour of my town telling them all cool interesting facts, and then I go for the kiss under this street lamp. (see I've got a little romance in me too) Or I go to the mall (when I need to buy something) and walk around, maybe grab a cup of coffee at the food court, and then go to the pet store and play with the puppies, usually for this I get her to play along that we're engaged (only because they don't let you play with the puppies unless you seem like you really are going to buy one). --Just keep it simple man.

In parts of your post you come off sounding a little needy, for instance when you said “I need your mobile number.”. You don't need anything, remember your dick is a present to all woman kind, why would you force a present on anyone?

Lead the way, you should have been the one saying to request to leave the restaurant, but it sounded like you "wanted" to stay, and this is what fucked you up, as soon as you enter a state of wanting, you enter a state of lacking.

Alright, I'm done talking out of my ass.

If you get a chance though check out my sedona method post on how to let go of wanting and needing, (if you want I can send you some of the cds) or check out my 2min # close post on how to just be playful + dominant.