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This is cross posted verbatim from my local lair.


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Almost didn't go out last nite, had cell phone issues even tho I already paid the bill..

Anyways I get home a bit before midnite, shower up, play with some riffs, and head out.

I end up going to Peabody's..

I remember sitting in my car, tired as fuck, debating whether I should go in cuz it was already 115, and I was supposed to be into work at 10.

I say aloud "Ahhhh let's see what blockers I can remove"

I walk in and spot a 2set [very cute, next-doorish brunette, and a alright blonde, seemed a bit older than brunette] sitting at the main bar next to one of those touch screen games.

I use a direct opener [a la badboy/ranko/shark] I thought of on the fly

"I'm filming a movie called Double Beautiful. I want you both to be the main characters"

Both girls get giddy and I ask them how long they've been friends for, and comment on how empty the bar is. I can feel myself just *about* to start 'grasping at straws' so I say "My agents are calling your agents tomorrow, be ready" they laugh and I move on.

Its so dead in there all the employees look depressed/pissed/bored.

I go into the side bar and there are two hotties dancing on the dance floor. They are the only chicks in the room. I chat the huge bouncer (DeeBo) for a minute and move back to the other side to see if anything's changed [as in new sets to game]

Still nothing.

I talk to another bouncer that's feeding the internet jukebox songs to play. I'm reviewing his song collection and it's all east coast rap [nas, jadakiss, b.i.g.]. We vibe on that for a bit and he leaves. I've got my back to the wall leaning against the jukebox. Another cat comes up and I tell him "Make sure it's good shit" and I end up helping him out to get his songs to play faster. He buys me a shot of Jaeger.

Over at the dart bar I run into another buddy of mine. I remind myself about the rhythm I'm establishing [i.e. going out to socialize with bar buddies vs. aggressively sarging], take a look around, and decide it's best to just be as social as I can.

A cute brunette comes up and is talking to my bar buddy, and is initiating incidental stage 1 kino [see DiCarlo Escalation Ladder] on me. She opens me and asks me my name, we exchange names and talk about how long she's known my bar buddy for. She scoots off and I notice there's a HOT little brunette talking to the cat next to me. She's intently talking to him, like she was gaming him. One thing I noticed about this guy was that the whole time his arms were crossed. When I read ASF BLtheory a long time ago it said basically to never cross your arms because you can come off as defensive. So ever since then I've almost NEVER crossed my arms. But this guy seemed to be drawing the girl in by doing so! I decided I'd try that later.

A few minutes pass and I see HBMohawk [who blew me off last nite in the other FR] and a friend of hers walk in. I turn around and decide I'd ignore her till she initiated eye contact or approached me.

I know she saw me and during her dart game she points at me, waves, and motions for me to come over to her [pointing her finger down at the spot in front of her]. I ain't no puppy so I shake my head 'no' and point at the ground in front of me for her to come to me. She points at her dart board as if that's a valid reason for her not being 'able' to come to me. I point at the ground again, shrug my shoulders [a quick, non-chalant shrug] and go back to talking to my bar buddy. I figure since she blew me off Sunday nite (after saying she'd chill) that its best to just lay back and let her chase me. She will.

edit/addition>>> As I was going outside to use the phone, a really hot, tanned brunette in mixed 4 set (2 guys 2 girls) was initiating hardcore eye contact with me. I made her look away ala David D style, but didn't approach. She ended up leaving with the set and shot me a glance back as she was walking with her friends. So the 'blocker' there was that I was intimidated to approach her even after getting solid AI. I would have given her a solid 9, but on a 'tough' scale I will give her 8.5. I blocked myself because I didn't have faith in being direct with her despite the fact she might have been there with a guy she was seeing/dating. But fuck, for all I know she could've been single as fuck. I'm thinking direct, or even just taking action will eliminate this blocker.

We leave the bar and end up going to my bar buddy's house. His roommate's gf says she recognizes me from somewhere and is giving me massive IOIs.

BTW, anybody ever notice that sometimes chicks in relationships can be easier to deal with as far as shagging goes?

I ask her what her relationship situation is and she says my buddy's roommate is her EX-bf. It seemed like they dating to me. Also, my bar buddy said that they were bf/gf, but he's one of those guys that fibs about a lot of shit [i.e We had 80 cases of bud light on the boat]..

But yeah, she ends up figuring out that she knows two old friends of mine, one I was supposed to go gun shooting with yesterday.

She and I end up vibing about those days, cats vs. dogs, and other interesting topics. I could tell if the logistics were present she'd be down to spread her legs in a heartbeat. BTW, I crossed my arms as an experiment like I mentioned earlier. The frame I had in my head was that I was screening her and that it was her job to 'draw me out'. You know what happened when I went from open BL to 'closed' BL via crossing my arms?

She chased me instantly.

As in she got in close to me, her eyelids dropped slightly, there was a very sexual vibe coming from her. I say this because I felt a boner sprouting, so she must have had some activity going down there wink

The logistics weren't there but the attraction was, which was a useless situation.

Another thing noticed that I have to mention is that when I felt like I was stalling during convo, all I did was raise my chest [like a rooster] and make super direct eye contact, as in looking at my reflection in their pupil and inner iris and words just started flowing out of my mouth. I also felt more dominant too, so I will experiment with that BL tech more this week.


Appreciative thanks to RHM and Nektar for pushing me to focus on in-field sarging. I almost didn't go out, still got late to work today, but it was worth it for the insights and the mini social workout.


So things I want to work on this week:

-Using more direct openers (they seem efficient)

-Calibrating when it's most effective to cross my arms (I think this would work better on a girl that is already attracted after displaying 'open' BL)

-Making sure I go deeper into this eye contact thing. For real, when I was raising my chest and looking at my reflection through the eyes of others, I felt something ancient; I felt more dominant and confident in myself.