[diablo]

I met this girl at a gas station last week on friday. She's got the face of a 7, but the body of an 8. Well, anywhoo, a few hours after I got her number she texts me. I was at work and I ended up texting back and forth with this girl practically most of the afternoon while working. Long story short, I was playing basketball with some neighborhood homies and she texts me @ 10:25 p.m. This is how it went down.

HBhybrid: What u doin?
Me: Smoking and playing basketball. What it do?
HBhybrid: I'm here at club 06.
Me: Who you with?
HBhybrid: some friends
Me: u texting me as an invitation to see you or do you just miss me already
HBhybrid: just bored
Me: Well, I know a little cafe. There are some restaurants around.
HBhybrid: I c wutz up

tell a little more about the initial encounter at the gas station...
but seems to me that when she texted you...
it definitely was an invite, so there was no need to ask about it. agreed?
this girl wasn't in the mood for cafe's and resturants if she's at a club.
probably wanted to get drunk and make some bad decisions. lol

I didn't go to the club she was at 'cause I didn't want to come off as desperate or seem needy and I wanted to maintain the frame. What you think I should have done? Go to the club and meet her and her friends or what? I may have fucked up with the whole cafe and restaurant deal because it makes it seem like I'm courting her instead of just wanting to fuck her. Dude, this girl and I have very little rapport and nothing in common, so for sure she wants my dick.

where do you live in relation to the club?

i don't think going to meet her would have seemed desperate or needy...
she wanted to see you there... or wanted to bounce to where you were...
that's the vibe i get... could be wrong... it's hard to tell over the internet.

i've showed up to clubs by myself to meet a girl...
i knew it was on... i knew people who worked at the club...
i knew she'd be paying attention to me more than her friends...
did you get this vibe from her at the gas station?
what was the flirting like there?

as far as the very little rapport thing goes...
just assume deep rapport... and play it from there-

Now my second high quality problem

OOOOH you poor baby...

rarebreed: um hey guys... all these hot girls really want me... umm... and like... here's the problem.... i don't have enough dicks in my pants for them ALL at once... so like.... how can i-

hahaha... you know i'm just playin

met this HB9 this Sunday at the mall. I was talking to her yesterday and she was trying to test me, but I did a total 180 on her ass. She was like, "Yeah. So, what about it?". I was legitimately trying to get her in a convo, but she wasn't having it. Instead I qualified her behavior and was like, "I know what you're doing. You know, I can tell you have a strong personality, which makes you very dominant. I like that, but I can also tell that with all that exterior toughness, deep down inside you're just a little girl who's very emotional.". I start to run some virtual compliance techniques on the phone about her and I being boyfriend and girlfriend and how she's gonna buy me this and that and blah blah blah, but how it would probably last 2 months. She's like, "Two months. How rude?!", and I was like, "Okay, three months.".

you cold read her perfectly...
i would have love to have seen her face turn puppy doggish
pupils dialate
lips pucker
she touches your arm...
love that moment

i highlighted this paragraph because THIS is the frame you should keep.
just keep playing like you've known her for years...
she KNOWS it's not true...
but the primitive part of her brain doesn't know the difference...

i heard this somewhere:
in a neuro-imaging study of the brain
they asked participants to look at their hand
and the researchers noted what part of the brain lit up.
then they asked participants to close their eyes and imagine their hand
and the researchers observed the SAME part of the brain light up.
so it caused scientists to ask this quesiton-
What is real?
is it what the eyes see
or is it what the brain thinks.
and the answer is-
your brain doesn't know the difference between what it sees in it's environment and what it imagines.

so back to our topic.
if you keep joking that you and her used to date
and that she was a great girl but it just wont workout
(while you touch her).
then she KNOWS it's a joke, but her brain doesn't know!

Dude, she ends up texting me a picture of her big beautiful ass wearing a victoria secret underwear. Dude, it was see through. I start to tease her about her ass saying, "Well, you do have a wonderful ass, but by any chance did you get a but implant? Something so beautiful can't be real.". She start to qualify herself to me and all that shit, man.

haha... "dude, it was see through"...
hahaha...
what were her qualifications?
stuff like, "no i workout all the time rarebreed, this is my real ass"......?

after that picture
i think i would have just been like,
"ok, i'm busy right now... what are you doing in like an hour?"

she sends you a pic of her in her see thru undies...
SHE KNOWS YOU'RE GONNA GET AROUSED...
SHE WANTED YOU TO GET AROUSED
or she wouldn't have sent it.

i probably would have ignored it. and set up a date for later that night.
ignoring a sexy ass, is a crazy good demonstration of value on your part.
most guys oogle her ass..
and you just brush it off.. cuz you've seen millions of asses...
and you ask what makes her special apart from her great ass?
great asses are common

::::this mindset is money to build all the attraction you need::::

Anyways, I wanted to set something for the night so we can fuck, but she told me she was babysitting for her mom. I text her the next day and this is how it went:
Me: I got an idea for you, but I'm not sure if you can handle it.
HBgreat ass: ?
Me: I just got off work and I got some time up until five. I want to have lunch with you. What time is your lunch break?
(I get no response for an hour.)
Me: U don't eat lunch or do I make you nervous?
(another hour passes by)
Me: Nevermind. I though we had a vibe. Apparently you r not interested enough to answer a simple question. I don't want to play this game. Bye.

seems obvious now that she didn't wanna go eat. haha....
but no big deal... give it a week and text her again...

if she's sending pictures of her ass
she probably doesn't want to eat with you
(if she did she'd be sending pictures of hamburgers .lol)

think really really hard about what it's like to be her
getting these messages from you.

have you ever had a REALLY needy girl pursue you?

Again, this chick and I have very little rapport and nothing in common, other than wild hormones. I got a feeling she'll get in contact with me again and if she doesn't call by this week I will call her sunday.

i bet she'll contact you too
if not... i'd text not call.
seems to be her main communication medium

I've noticed one thing, though. It seems like these chicks I'm meeting have no interest in building rapport and want to just fuck. They really do respond more to sexual tension than authenticity and when I suggest to do something that seems like I want to be their boyfriend, they close up.

i bet they want a little rapport.
i bet they love the tension you build.
but they don't want a BOYFRIEND YET!!! they just met you.
they will think about you being boyfriend material.
but they want you to advance sexually FIRST.
then be boyfriendish... EVERYONE wants to be their boyfriend.
be indifferent to that

What's your experience with party girls vs. none party girls?

these are just brief brief brief descriptions
that should be MUCH longer

party girls are fun.
but don't arouse me much.
they like to drink and do a lot of drugs usually..
which is fun also. haha...
they aren't big into eating dinner with you alone.
they wanna hang out with their friends. and your friends.
they love to hook up.
they are NOT traditional

nonparty girls...
are NOT traditional.
they wanna go for walks..
they wanna connect deep.
they wanna get fucked in the ass
they wanna get drunk as hell and get tied up and fucked really hard with your hand over their mouth.