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Originally Posted by rarebreed  Now, there are guys that do actually hit on woman by touching them too soon in the convo, but they do it to seek approval or because they're being needy. That's bad, but when you have the belief of being a sausage with feet that all woman want to take advantage of then all that neediness and supplicative behavior goes away and all that's left are behaviors that are congruent with the belief of being a sausage with feet all woman want to take advantage of.
The message I want to get across is that "rejection" is subjective and the only thing we have are experiences that make us grow into better men. When a woman thinks you are hitting on her that means she's thinking about sex before you are or your behaviors aren't aligned with the belief that you are a sausage with feet woman want to take advantage of. |
This reminds me of the time we were out with FastEddie last summer...
at that "Country Western Club" with hip-hop music (weird combination)
The three of us walked around and i forget who initiated the two asian girls
But I remember getting into conversation with one of them.
I was thinking "bla bla bla bla yeah that's great"
Then I leaned in and kissed her. And smiled.
I don't even think it was but a minute or two since meeting them
She just looked at me.
I thought it was funny.
Then in your report of the night, you went off on my calibrating issues
and tried to pat me on the back about doing better next time...
as if i felt bad about it! WTF?
I wasn't even thinking about "calibration" or rejection
It was more like stupid fun.
Just being random.
Without a care.
How can you be rejected when no one expects it?
Hell I didn't even know i was gonna do that! lol
I just thought it'd be funny to see what happens.
You think i was "calibrating" that same night, same place,
when i coaxed those two guys into coming over...
the boyfriend wanting to kick my ass...
while the wife, girlfriend, and i waved "hi" at them?
When you're bullshitting around and getting over your fears/excuses
there's no such thing as too early or too soon.
There's no "calibration" or "rejection."
Only growth and accomplishment.
There's really nothing to think about.
You're right it's subjective.
We had completely different perspectives.