Day 2 with HBBradenton + Day 2 with HBJAP | | Night of 3/22/08
Day 2 with HBBradenton
HBBradenton calls me and asks about that club I was talking about [the Orpheum]. I tell her it should be going off and we should go check it out. She says she’ll see if she can find a babysitter [she’s got 2 kids I found out] and let me know. I tell her to ‘make it happen’. Sure nuf a few minutes later she shoots me a text saying she’ll call me on her way up.
She calls me and I’m at my [now former, see Day2 with HBJap to see why] wing’s house. I give her directions to there.
She meets me there and we’re hangin out, shootin the shit. HBJap calls while we’re chillin so I turn off the ringer. Wing calls me upstairs for a moment to tell me that ‘she’s lame’ [meaning HBBradenton] and passes me the phone. It’s HBJap. I tell her I didn’t want to be an asshole by picking up the phone in front of my date. She says that’s cool and we should chill. I tell her I’ve got plans for the evening but we should hang out later/another day. I completely disregard my wing’s comment and shelf it under ‘jealousy’, so a few minutes later I tell her we’re going, and we get out of there.
We head to my house so I can change, and I kiss her there, then dip out.
We go to Reservoir Bar first and grab drinks there, and play the touch screen thing there. All the while btw I’ve got strong/’dominant’/overt kino interspersed with plenty of incidental kino, worked like a charm. Basically I was leading her through crowds with her holding my hand, or I had my hand on the small of her back. BTW, I noticed it worked better to have her hold my hand and let me just blaze thru the crowds.
After there we were walking towards The Orpheum, and I notice a couple behind me. I turn to look at them and see this brunette hipster cutie beaming at me. I’m calling her HB Hipster. I say what’s up and we chat for a bit. They say they’re going to New World so I tell HBBradenton we should go for a beer.
We’re there checking it out; theres a band playing. I’m trying to figure out a way I can discreetly slip HBHipster my cell phone #, or get hers [in this case I wanted to just give her mine, I have a feeling should would have called me for sure].. I’m not seeing a way. HBBradenton is all over me and there weren’t enough people in the bar to use a crowd or a mini-crowd as a visual shield if that makes sense. We have a couple beers and leave.
We stop at 3 Coins Diner [awesome, awesome place] and have food there. Here I think I fucked up cuz this wasn’t necessary. I already had mad comfort built. I should’ve just gone home and sealed the deal. But yeah, she’s got her leg parallel to mine and I’ve got my hand up her pant leg kinoing her calf and the back of her knee. We chat in this position for most of the time unless I’m leaning back, we eat and head on home.
At home I pick her up and throw her on my bed. We’re making out on my bed and getting heavy on the kino and she stops me. She says she’s got to get back to her kids to get their easter shit ready. I tell her she’ll get it squared away and resume. She stops me once I get my hand in her pants and other hand on her tit and says she really has to go. I’m like “whatever, not gonna BEG for it” in my head and outwardly I try to be as “understanding’ as possible. She says “Really, I want to wait. We’ve only met each other once before this.” I must’ve lost a bit of self-control cuz a couple minutes later she asks “Are you mad at me?” and I say “No” and she says “Your demeanor’s changed. Please don’t be mad at me, I really want to [fuck], but it’d be so much better if we waited. I have to get back to my kids too cuz they’re going to be wondering why the Easter bunny hasn’t come yet.’
I say no I’m not mad, see ya later and wave her goodbye.
She calls me the next day as I’m thinking about her [I know why she wants to wait... sneaky sneaky…] and we chat for a bit, and I let her go.
She called me again yesterday to set up something for today, but she couldn’t find a babysitter. What’s going to be great about banging this broad is that she knows what the score is. I feel that if I would’ve fucked her on Day 2, I would definitely be down to fuck her again, but with much less emotionally invested on my part. I’ve been thinking about her non-stop! Or I should say, thinking about fucking her non-stop wink |