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LR: HBBradenton gets her bird smashed
« on: March 29, 2008, 12:36:09 PM »
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I haven't slept since Thursday-Friday so bear with
Here's how the text went on Thursday.
Me: Hey you should come chill tonite. Popcorn n a movie Smiley <<<I knew she couldn't make it, seeing if she'd SOI/make plans
Her: wish i cud... tonites not good. y don't u come here one nite? my kids go to sleep @ 8 Wink
Me: That could be fun.. Well Friday or Saturday are good for me.
Her: Me 2!
I let her be the last one to respond here, and she ended up rousing me out of dreamland at around 1:07
We talk on the phone and I tell her Friday [the next day] is better for me.
Drive down there, I buy No Country For Old Men and Room 1408 at the 24 hr Walmart off 64. [side note here: Wal-mart is ridiculously uncanny at making me buy on impulse.]
She's got sushi and wine waiting, pop the movie in, done deal, no LMR.
Ok, well let me go into non-graphic detail here:
I pretty much know we were gonna fuck, I still did the following:
Watch movie >> soft kiss >> End it first >>> Watch movie, arm and shoulder kino >>> medium kiss (a bit longer) >>> End it first >>> Watch Movie, cuddle >>> Kino tits >>> Watch Movie, arm kino >>> Make out, kino >>> End it first >>> Inner thigh - pussy kino >>> Make out >>> "let's go to my room"
Went down in less than 45 mins, and that's cuz I was actually into the movie! Shitty, shitty ending though. No Country for Old Men I mean.
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Notes to self
DEL simplified is incidental kino with overt kino being any dominant kino I want to do when I want to do it. It's more important to have incidental kino down than it is to know what overt goes where. Much less confusing, more powerful for me.
Dominant kino is also important to do when I feel like doing it. Better to try to do it and be sloppy but let her sense my assertion over her vs. not taking the chance that she might reel which most of them don't, when I kino chicks and grab them around the waist in experiment they love it, it's the sour cold fish that hate on my kino.
Important to keep frame.. She was trying to just take my # down the first time I met her and I called her out. Playful assertiveness (not aggressiveness or passivity) is the golden zone
Just because a chick won't/doesn't kiss me on Day 1 doesn't mean I can't fuck her on Day 2 or 3. I do need to get into the habit tho of pushing/creating positive logistics.. It's something I've been thinking about lately.
1st day lay is optimal, but there's nothing wrong with going to a chicks house on Day 3 (soon to be on Day 2s for me) and giving her the cock if that's how it works out. Sometimes pushing on Day 1 gets the lay, other times 'holding out' will. I guess it depends on what I want from her.
Now that I think of it during all my streaks of lays I didn't give a fuck where I was fucking at.
My bed or hers doesn't make a difference if the groundwork has been done. When the foundation's fucked that's where I get LMR.
I have this thing where I don't want to give them too much power or home field advantage; I thought that me going to them was showing too much compliance/interest, but shit, if she's legitly attracted, no reason to be hardline about it. Give and take..
Always ask for what I want in the sack. She had no problem swallowing the money shot. |