From what I've read by the instructors and from those posting LRs, I've learned that those who are having success seem to do so without having to work some sort of "incredible, skillful game" that was full of expert moves and what not in order to get a lay. For those who have success it seems just too easy. I have recently had a taste of this and will share with you. I hope this helps some people and am happy to be able to give back to this forum. Of course now that I'm sleeping with this girl I'm back into "unfamiliar territory" since it's unfortunately been so long, so any advice as to where to go from here is much appreciated. Anyways, I'll get to the story.
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My landlord works out a deal with our University so that our apartments are always filled with foreign exchange students. While most of the newcomers this year were dudes, a sexy blond German girl did happen to move in a couple of months ago. We'll call her Germany.
One day my roommate and I are talking in the living room and we hear knocking. I answer the door, and to my surprise a hot blond girl (Germany) with a foreign accent is asking me for a corkscrew to open a bottle of wine. We have a brief introduction/chat about where she's from and she returns the corkscrew to me. She leaves and my roommate and I both exchange smiles.
I'll outline my interactions with Germany over the course of the next few weeks. Although nothing spectacular happened game-wise I'll put this in for informational purposes.
* I bump into her again while she's outside looking for her roommate who is hanging out with some neighbor dude's. We chat briefly about nothing important. I don't even think I mentioned anything that would be considered a "DHV". The neighbor dudes come out and we all talk. They go chase their dog into her apartment with her roommate but she stays talking to me for a minute. I then exit to go cook some Ramen and she returns to her apartment in which the neighbors are hanging out. (Dammit they're getting the jump on me I think to myself - whatever, I've got other girls who are more promising prospects - so I thought anyways).
***I later found out from her this neighbor guy was trying to game her. He wound up with his arm around her on the couch one night and asked her if he could kiss her. She hates it when guys ask if they can kiss her instead of just knowing so she said no (I think we could all see that one coming). He later fucks her less-attractive roommate and never talks to her again. This gives Germany the impression (along with several experiences with other guys) that all American guys are just looking for sex and are pushy about it. She also developed a fear that even I wouldn't want to talk with her after sex (as discussed in Vin's 5 objections article).
* My roommate's birthday: We all pregame with a bunch of his friends at our apartment. I go over to Germany's apartment and invite her and her roommate over to join us. They were going to go to the bar but have wishy-washy plans so they join us. Long story short, we all go to another party. My roommate is blacked out so I spend most of the time carrying him around. I interact with Germany very little. The most interaction was when 4 of us briefly danced in a circle together at the party. The whole time I am being a good friend and tending to my roommate while my friends are putting much effort into talking to Germany. Again, my interactions with her were pretty minimal.
* She stops by the next day for no reason and chats with my roommate and I for 5 minutes... she just wanted to see how he was doing since he was such a mess the night before.
* Wednesday nights I work with a bar in town to put together a "hip hop" themed night. Instead of usual top 40 cd-spinning DJs we have real DJs and my friend's and I go there to have breakdance sessions. My friend who talked to Germany during the night of the party bumped into her on campus and got her to come out to it. I was surprised to see her and gave them compliments on being cool and coming out. I think I also qualified her on a little dance move she did. Otherwise there was not much gaming of her that night either. Perhaps some social proof since I know the manager and talked to other girls at the bar who were interested in me.
So up to this point I have a few other female prospects that I thought were going to turn out as lays for sure (but never did), and although I realize the possibility is there, the thought of laying Germany does not seem like it was going to happen in my near future.
THE LAY
Friday night my roommate and I invent a new mixed drink and go out to the bar we always go to (same one as Wednesday nights). I hate to admit, I was drunker than I usually ever get, but still remember most of the critical details.
We approach the bar and there is a long line. No problem the manager's outside so I say whats up and he bounces us right in through the back. Gotta love the social proof even though most people don't even notice this.
I'm in the bar being my usual social self and talking to people. Didn't even make it up to the dance floor. I'm talking to this cute girl I know as an acquaintance who seems pretty into me. I apparently got her number as is evident by a text she sent me later. Mid conversation I bump into Germany at the bar. I don't remember exactly what we talked about, but I do remember sensing some jealousy from the other girl who began talking intently to my friend.
Last call. Lights come on. I leave at the same time as Germany. Apparently my DJ friend hits on her outside the bar a little and I encourage him to game some girls or something (I don't remember this though).
I'm walking home talking to Germany, again up to this point I really haven't done a single thing as far as consciously trying to run game. One thing that is key though, is that on the walk home I realize after some time that I am walking with Germany and that no one else is with us. I definitely remember taking note of this as a window of opportunity.
We get back to the apartments and walk up to by her door. We start to make out. I don't remember exactly how it went down unfortunately but I do know that I didn't ask her if I could kiss her
I probably just did my default: looked sexually into her eyes and progressed from there.
One interesting note is that I don't believe I even had much kino up to this point. I really wasn't working the ladder much and definitely wasn't making any overt moves. hmmmm.
So we're making out against the wall for several minutes. I am grinding up between her legs, pushing her up against the wall outside her door. I then proceeded onward whereas in the past I may have just been content with the make-out. This is what I see as my main key to success here. I basically take note of increasingly sexual charge in the make-out and ask if I can get some water from her apartment. I later found out from her that she was trying very hard to keep herself from letting me in because she knew what would happen... although she put up no resistance when I asked for the water.
So I drink some water in her kitchen and then proceed to make-out again. I then pick her up and carry her into her bedroom and then toss her on her bed.
I continue to make-out with her and go into ramp mode with some alterations. She says something about dimples on our bellies and I say something like "look our bellies are kissing" and pull our shirts up get the belly-on-belly contact. I then progress to kiss her belly a bit. Since she was already turned on from all the grinding I remember just pulling her pants down, pulling her panties aside and eating her out a bit. I did this a little and then just pulled my pants off and sealed the deal.
Since then I have been hangin out with her and hooking up with her for the past week. I now have new concerns which I will continue in this next post. Advice is appreciated.
Thanks for reading
