First, women from other countries are usually easier becase they are (1) more natural than American women due to different upbringing and (2) have their defenses down since they are "traveling". So, just to boost my game, I'd go for foreing women any time...
Anyways, as far as your stamina situation, I can relate. A few times, when I was nervous thinking of something else (problems in family) and not able to be in the moment, I had both premature finish and limp dick. I can't tell you how to fix the "be in the moment" thing. You are already worrying about a lot of stuff, like what to do with this "relationship", etc., so that certainly doesn't help.
A quick fix -- take some Yohimbe (2% is enough, don't use stronger shit unless you need it and it doesn't give you chills) and fuck her brains out. That will bring you back into the saddle... ;-) |