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Originally Posted by diablo  when you say "exploring new things sexually and becoming more masterful"
...what does that mean?
what kind of new things sexually?
"more masterful..."
lol... did you really say that to her?
funny shit about you gettin high on top of her
then smearin cum everywhere, haha... |
haha no I didn't say that word for word. I forgot what I said exactly but I was trying to give her the impression that I'm trying to grow in my sexuality and I'd like to do this with her and experience different ways to give her orgasms. I was also trying to make it clear to her that her having an orgasm shouldn't be our goal but rather just us enjoying giving each other pleasure and enjoying the experience as a whole. I think I read from David Shade that its bad to make a woman's orgasm a goal and will inhibit it more within her. I just wanna find the ways to please her the most to the point where she's the one trying to get sex from me and not where I have deal with her making it difficult to have sex all the time. I'm not sure if this is the path I'm headed towards yet, but sometimes I get the feeling it could be. On the other hand we get along really well and since I wrote this post she hit me up on facebook offering me German pancakes tomorrow morning. I don't think I'll try to bang her tonight. I'm too freakin exhausted plus I think she needs a little space now and again.
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First, women from other countries are usually easier becase they are (1) more natural than American women due to different upbringing and (2) have their defenses down since they are "traveling". So, just to boost my game, I'd go for foreing women any time...
Anyways, as far as your stamina situation, I can relate. A few times, when I was nervous thinking of something else (problems in family) and not able to be in the moment, I had both premature finish and limp dick. I can't tell you how to fix the "be in the moment" thing. You are already worrying about a lot of stuff, like what to do with this "relationship", etc., so that certainly doesn't help.
A quick fix -- take some Yohimbe (2% is enough, don't use stronger shit unless you need it and it doesn't give you chills) and fuck her brains out. That will bring you back into the saddle... ;-)
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Yeah Europeans are definitely more open sexually. She seems like a sexually healthy girl and is also super-chill. This is why I am cool with dating her for a bit. Of course I'd like to think that she isn't soo easy. On one hand she has told me about several guys who have tried to get down with her since she's been here and so far I'm the only one even able to get to make-out let alone home base. There was no LMR but she told me later that she really wanted to resist letting me into her apartment because she didn't trust American guys so far.
I might have to check out that yohimbe stuff.