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haha no I didn't say that word for word. I forgot what I said exactly but I was trying to give her the impression that I'm trying to grow in my sexuality and I'd like to do this with her and experience different ways to give her orgasms. I was also trying to make it clear to her that her having an orgasm shouldn't be our goal but rather just us enjoying giving each other pleasure and enjoying the experience as a whole. I think I read from David Shade that its bad to make a woman's orgasm a goal and will inhibit it more within her. I just wanna find the ways to please her the most to the point where she's the one trying to get sex from me and not where I have deal with her making it difficult to have sex all the time. I'm not sure if this is the path I'm headed towards yet, but sometimes I get the feeling it could be. On the other hand we get along really well and since I wrote this post she hit me up on facebook offering me German pancakes tomorrow morning. I don't think I'll try to bang her tonight. I'm too freakin exhausted plus I think she needs a little space now and again.
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i agree with the notion of "not making her orgasm the main goal"
try that stuff spy recommended for the quick fix...
for a long fix of your premature-ness...
try kagel exercises.
also, try to never masturbate quickly.
always masturbate for 15 minutes then cum.
now... dig DEEEEP inside yourself...
what do you REALLY wanna do in bed with her?
comeon... let it out dude... this is just an internet forum.
you wanna fuck her in the ass?
you wanna tie her up?
what do you wanna do?
GET SPECIFIC... if not with us on the forum... get specific with yourself.
then let yourself come up with all the answers
and man....
don't be afraid of your sexual desires....
WHATEVER YOU WANT... you will get it.
DIGGGGG. hahaha
