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Originally Posted by Canjay  )
Couple more technical questions.
With the multi threading do you start a thread, switch to another, switch to a third and never go back and finish the previous ones?
Or do you start thread 1, then start 2, then start and finish 3, then finish 2, then finish 1?
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the way you say the threads
will make her want to know more about each one.
the way this works goes like this:
imagine you and i are talking...
i say, "man... the last time i was here... the WEIRDEST SHIT happened."
and i look you right in the eyes.
like i'm expecting you to say, "what kind of WEIRD SHIT?"
then... just as i see your facial expressions change to that curious look
before you get any words out,
i say, "and SPEAKING OF WEIRD... have you heard... about that NEW animal they found?"
you'll probably say, "no." or get a 'WTF' surprised look on your face.
then i'd come in with, "yea... it was on this show... and on the show.... they talked about how people with blue eyes... are more adapted to the world, than people with brown eyes."
did you put yourself in that situation?
it flowed naturally...
if you were a girl... you'd be thinkin,
"this guy is FULL OF THINGS to talk about."
"i feel like i can talk to him about ANYTHING."
so if the girl says, "wait, what was the weird thing that happened last time u were here??"
i'd probably say, "wait your turn"
and i wouldn't give her that thread she wanted, i'd give her a different one instead.
with a teasing look on my face...
by doing this
i'm allowing a lot of time for more threads to manifest,
creating that feeling of wide rapport
i'm being playful
but i can still go back to the multiple threads i brought up
becuase i haven't finished talkin about all of them yet!
the great thing about multiple threading is that you have something to go back to.
you can even leave a multiple thread completely untalked about,
get her number
and when you call her
you bring up the multiple thread that you left out immediately
for example, "hey, that weird new animal.... it's called a PANGOLIAN... yea,.. looks like a mixture between... a squirrel and a... fuckin armadillo or something.... anyway blablabla"
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And are you supposed to pace your pauses when speaking to match the breathing of who you're chatting to?
I was a little quick to lump what you described in with techniques I've learned and I could be wrong, so as usual I'm curious
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i don't ever consciously try to pace breathing
unless it's really quiet i guess.
and i can hear her breathing
and she can hear me breathing.
but that only happens in my room
