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Originally Posted by spy  Ha-ha... Thanks guys for the good feedback.
The sex is still mind-blowing, and I did do it twice a week now. She's already giving me heavy indicators that she wants much more, and it sends me down a guilt trip. If any of you have tips on dealing with guilt, it would be highly appreciated. The thing is, I've known her for over a month now (I posted the LR a little late), and she seems to be extremely healthy on the psychological and relational level. Very feminine and submissive. That's why I feel kinda bad at times. The main purpose of seeing her only once a week and not talking on the phone in-between is to keep this from slipping into a relationship mode. I've been firm with it and even encouraged her to seek out other guys. She didn't say anything, but she flinched and had very bad body language and a sad face (this was in bed). So that's where all the guilt is coming from... |
the guilt.
think about it like this spy
what makes you feel more guilty:
trying to keep this girl's feelings positive
or
not getting EXACTLY what you want out of life.
this is going to have to be one of those things you will have to "desensitize" yourself too.
if you know exactly what you want in life
and you are determined to get it no matter WHAT
you're going to hit some speed bumps like this along the way
yea, maybe she doesn't want other guys
i understand that
the girls i have sex with... don't want other guys either!
BUT, that does not mean
in any shape form or size
that *i* dont want any other girls!
i'm satisfied with my MLTR's
but i FUCKING LOVE THIS GAME...
going out, meeting someone new, isolating her, getting physical, fucking her..
I LOVE THAT! that feeling of hooking up with someone new..
it rocks!
i feel like you aren't getting all "serious talk" time on her
and that's very very good
so don't get that way...
just be that chill relax guy she initially fucked you for
and pick up new girls if you pick them up
and stop worrying about anything at all.
you can get away with anything if you have enough authority my friend
