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Originally Posted by diablo  i agree with the notion of "not making her orgasm the main goal"
try that stuff spy recommended for the quick fix...
for a long fix of your premature-ness...
try kagel exercises.
also, try to never masturbate quickly.
always masturbate for 15 minutes then cum.
now... dig DEEEEP inside yourself...
what do you REALLY wanna do in bed with her?
comeon... let it out dude... this is just an internet forum.
you wanna fuck her in the ass?
you wanna tie her up?
what do you wanna do?
GET SPECIFIC... if not with us on the forum... get specific with yourself.
then let yourself come up with all the answers
and man....
don't be afraid of your sexual desires....
WHATEVER YOU WANT... you will get it.
DIGGGGG. hahaha  |
I got some of that yohimbe stuff but didn't try it last night because I was worried I would get no sleep. I found some interesting info on all this stuff on the
Yohimbe, tongkat ali, horny goat weed (Epimedium) website. This guy seems very well versed in all of these substances and claims that any of the stuff you buy in regular US stores is devoid of the active substances. He also says that yohimbe is a little dangerous and he strongly prefers tongkat ali. The real stuff can be bought at tongkatali.org and is kind of expensive. I'll have to try it sometime.
So I definitely feel I'm starting to get "back in the saddle" as Spy said after last night. We went back to my place and I told her I had a surprise for her. I made sure she didn't open her eyes, took off her clothes, put her on her back and massaged her with that oil that heats up when you breath on it and tastes good. I think that increasingly sensual message along with kissing is a good foreplay to work her up and get her turned on.... I know it's nothing to crazy yet but I wanted to have some lube so I made my new purchase into somewhat of an experience.
I also took my time while fucking her. I did some taoist thrusting stuff. Alternating between short thrusts, slow and deep and then some fast and hard fucking. I would pull out if I got to close and rub and smack her with my dick and finger her. She seemed to enjoy it the whole time. I'm getting better with my dirty talk and more expressive and such with the build-up to coming. She really enjoyed this. I definitely was able to fuck much longer and drew the whole thing out for a while. Also, she was on her period, but put in some different tampon that wasn't even noticeable. There was not blood anywhere thank god. I pretended like I didn't give a shit but in all honesty I would have been a little grossed out if there was blood on my dick, but there wasn't. She said she was very happy that it didn't bother me.
All in all it was a great experience and after she was telling me how much she enjoys having sex with me and how happy she was that I kissed her on the night that I executed the first lay. So I feel a lot better overall now.
As far as digging to find what I really want... I'm glad you suggest this Diablo because I can see the importance. I feel I really do have to dig though....
I want to be able to make her cum through many ways (fingering, intercourse, etc. Sure even anal which I haven't ever done. Do you clean her ass before? Isn't it dirty and sketch to put your dick in there? Pretty much if I can have the kind of control over her orgasms like in the David Shade Manual and be able to do all the stuff talked about in there I think I would be pretty content. Tying her up would be cool to and I think I'll have to do that one too... I don't know what to tie the ropes to though because there are no posts or anything on my bed....
I also think it would be fun to take her to this garden that my University has out in these fields at night. There is this covered area with benches and a little waterfall thing. It would be cool to fuck her outside there if she had like a skirt on or something....
...here's the thing though with all this stuff...well particularly the outside fucking thing. I have to ask myself if I really want to do it because it is what really turns me on sexually, or if I just want to because I feel like it would be a cool story and experience to have under my belt. Is it something that's just so I can say "yeah I've done that" or something that really turns me on and satisfies me sexually... maybe I have to just try some of these things and see if I like them. Maybe I just have to have sex a few dozen more times until it becomes more mundane and I feel like I need some new more exciting experiences... I dunno.. I guess it's all part of the journey.
