Wondering what you guys would do in this situation | | Ok, so about 4 weeks ago, I was at a party and met this girl which iv seen around a few time. It was good, because we spoke for a couple minutes, and she had to leave, so I grabbed her number. Id say she’s HB7.5.
I never ended up ringing HB7.5 back. However, a week ago, I was leaving a club, and I bumped into her. We then ended up going to this other club. There was something like an hours wait to get in, but I know the owner, so I got us in straight away and for free. The night went great, I played it well, and I could have even kissed her on a few occasion, but I though I wouldn’t, in hope she would want me even more.
I even told her she’s going to have to earn a kiss from me, and she laughed.
I cant be bothered going through everything, but the night really went well, we had lots of fun, the discussions were interesting / funny, he friends were having fun, etc, etc.
In addition, she kept telling me I had to make it up to her, for never calling her (she repeated this a few times during the night) so before we both went home, I told her id take her out the next night, and she agreed.
When I went to call her the next day, during the afternoon, she flaked out on me, and said I called too late, and said she organised something else (I had called at 5-30PM)
I then didn’t contact here again until the weekend, in which, we kept sending messages to and from each other. It was only then, that I realised she was much harder to get into than I first thought, and on top of this, she was also playing the game.
She would wait a few hours to respond to simple messages ... I remember one conversation going like this:
HB7.5 - What’s going to be so exciting about this weekend
Me – Its always a party when I am out
HB7.5 – you’re a loser lol … im feeling better so I might go out now
Me – why would you call me a loser for, I thought you were a nice girl
HB7.5 – I am a nice girl loser =)
Me – good girls finish last loser
HB7.5 – but loser boys don’t finish at all
So as I said, she was making it real hard to just catch up for even a drink.
I think I even pushed the cocky funny a little too far, and when I asked her to come out for a drink, she said, maybe if I stop being cocky.
I then felt as if she was going to flake out on me again, so I said, if your not interested, just tell me, which she went on to say, how she just got out of a serious relationship and didn’t want anything with anyone blah blah blah … to which I replied, hold your horses, i wasn’t thinking of anything serious, just thought it be fun to go out for a drink.
I then left the ball in her court, by stating that when she was free, to contact me.
I now have no intentions of contacting her again, and will just wait until she does, if she does.
First of all, sorry if this is so long.
Secondly, just wanted to know what others would have done … I know some may say, well don’t get so hung up on one girl… which im not, but I feel that every problem, has a solution, and if you do / say the right things, any girl can be cracked.
Last edited by tricolori : 04-21-2008 at 08:29 AM.
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