What we did was some very intense skills based training, and its designed to give immediate results, and as well as that give you long-term benefits as well, although on a conscious level we may still feel insecure or negative about our skills, its not until we get back into the field that we realize how far we've come, and with our type of Drills based teaching it is likely that you will succeed in pickup way more than ever before, so please give it a go first! So I highly recommend letting us know how you perform in the field in the next 2 months and reporting back, you will more than likely surprise yourself.
It is very important in my opinion to keep a positive mental attitude, and to be easier on yourself. Many guys who are first learning the game before they get some major success can tend to be overly critical of themselves, be nonsupporting of themselves, and generally reinforce some negative beliefs about themselves initially when they challenge themselves, and its hard! We spoke about that during training, so I highly recommend attempting to keep a positive mental attitude and be kinder to yourself and allowing yourself plenty of room to make mistakes and have days when you don't feel amazing.
As far as the drill where you got riled up, that's not uncommon for students. Just because you had a natural reaction to negativity, doesn't mean you failed or are incapable of being calm in the face of testing. Again, cut yourself some slack – I thought you did fine, and you'll only get better. We simulating all the stuff that is quite normal to encounter in when cold approaching women and have you prepared and knowing full well how to deal with it.
Also, the other guys did really well,. These were normal, cool guys who came to learn, and they really went out of their comfort zone that first night. All of them credited the opening drills we did as the reason for their success. None of them had gone out and cold-approached before, and they had some pretty powerful realizations this past weekend about how easy it is to approach women.
Saturday night was an extremely bizarre series of events that has never happened before in all the time I have been teaching bootcamps, and due to us driving 20 minutes to Pacific Beach and having to drive back (because of their strange State ID policy) really decreased our in-field time. The other guys, especially the tall guy, should get credit for staying enthusiastic and helping me look for alternatives. I want to make the important point that we will make an extra special effort to extend to you an opportunity to make that few hours in in-field instruction up to you in the future.
Drills is not just about the weekend training, it also includes, as we spoke about, plenty of follow up contact, and I'm here to support you in your quest to have an abundance of women. We like to make Drills challenging for people at all skill levels, so that you are well equipped for all the situations you are likely to encounter in the real world.
You'll be fine bro. Take a few days off to let your mind cool off, and enjoy some increased success with women. Talk to you soon |