[Renaissance]

Hey guys, I am really new to this community. I have always been one of those guys who was always with girls. I was always one of the popular kids. Finally, I met this this really great girl. She seemed to be everything I wanted. She was really cute, smart, independent, and confident. I was with her, exclusively for two years. It was really great until I found out that she had been cheating on me. She cheated on me with some guy who she always used to say was just a friend. Worst thing is she was messing with him 8 months before actually admitting it to me. Long story short I broke it off.

It's been about 7 months now and I have been trying to bring a new lady into my life. In the past I always hadd girls around me, but had no idea what I did to keep them around. Also I just moved to a another university. Ever since the break up it has not been easy for me to meet new people.

I am 20 years old and had no idea that people actually study and can teach how to do this stuff. Finding this community was a God send for me. My goals are really simple. I want to become a better and more confident person. Someone who is aware of what he does to make things happen. I am in this to get the girl and to make new friends.

I know it will take time, effort, and sacrifice. This is something I really want to get handled. I want to start from scratch. I hope I'm in the right place.