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Originally Posted by Beckstar  Hi Lester!
To the Group question: i think loud:"i can say what i want"
and then i go into the group...
i don`t know if this is the right way, i don`t believe it anymore.
this stuff helped me much, but i don`t get it really complete.
i start concentrate on something i want to do.
then steallthy i get back concetrating on my thoughts.
When i realize it, i get stressed finally angry.
my forehead, my nose and the area between my eyes
get very constricted, finally i feel a pain.
it makes me so wired
I still try on focusing outside but i constantly fall back
Question:What do i wrong?
Question: When i could listen into a Puas head would i hear something?
If Yes in which Situation.
Hope you can help me |
Whether its a group or a single woman by herself, whether it's in a bar or a park I'm really screening her, to she if she's fun, if she has a good vibe. Is by keeping my mouth shut most of the time and asking her questions. If I start thinking about my thoughts, I make sure I stop, and get back to screening her, to see if she's fun.
What you're doing wrong is thinking to much in your head. It's best to make her or the group look good, by helping them contribute to the interaction. Let them charm you, let them give you meaningful answers to you questions, let them show you that they are fun to be with.