I signed up just to get clarification on this one point.
I realize that as you get more advanced you don't always stick to the technical strategy. But not everyone is there, and since this IS the DiCarlo webpage, AND the "DiCarlo Escalation Ladder" forum, it would be nice if someone could give an answer that doesn't involve ditching the whole system. The whole point of the ladder is for less experienced guys to not have to 'wing it'. It surprises me there is nothing in there about taking off your own pants. Since its something that can trigger her LMR, and its something that HAS to happen in every lay. Why isn't it on the ramp? Its the only hole in an otherwise perfect model of escalation in my opinion.
I have had atleast two girls freak over my own pants coming off. So it does happen. Or I'll take mine off and then shes ok with that as long as hers dont come off and then im left naked with her dressed and me lookin like a tool haha.
But seriuosly, without ditching the entire ramp model, where is a good place to insert the part where the guy takes his pants off?  |