A couple things to consider -
1) the system isnt meant to hold your hand and be a crutch its really moreso a framework for you to operate in
2) I get the feeling when you say you take your pants off that theres a hitch somewhere in the system - like shes not turned on enough or theres something weird about how you do it - I personally havent ever had this problem as most girls ask you to take your pants off when they are ready.
3) Think about her being turned on a volume knob - get her as hot as is necessary for her to procede to the next step - shes taking a big risk having sex with you - put those issues to bed as you continue to escalate and turn her on
4) Pleasure her through clothes and make them the obstacle to better pleasure - rubbing her pussy thru her panties feels good but feels way better when her panties come off - she knows this and she will probably help you out. |