[Ebbi]

Hey guys,
Recent SP of mine. I've been trying to change my style to a more under the radar, low energy, smooth vibe recently (ie what I imagine most of the guys here do). A couple of months back, I wouldn't do "sets" I'd just hit the club and talk to as many people as I could. This put me in a fun, talkative state (I guess it's what Sebastian describes in "Lo-tech solutions for smart people") and I felt like I was doing OK with it.

Now, when I just go for the sets that I'm interested in, nothing seems to work. It's not as fun as it used to be and I don't feel like I'm going anywhere. I honestly thought this would make my nights out more efficient. Is working the room a crutch I'm relying on? Is there a hole in my game that I'm filling with chatting the entire club? What can I shift my attention too that wouldn't necessitate this sort of behaviour? Any comments would be appreciated. Best,
Ebbi