[Noonaute]

Thanks for your answer Lester.

I think I see your point, but I was not specifically talking about your identity as the job you have here. I meant like your "stereotype character" in a group. Are you the funny one? The loud serious guy?

Vin's method is great because it allows you to stay yourself while getting good with women. But what if you don't know who that self is?

I hesitated before posting this because it might be interpreted like overthinking, but again, it's not a sticking point relating to picking up women. It's a real identity problem that I'm experiencing and Brian's inner game section seemed to me like the best place to start searching for the answers I'm looking for.

Thanks again for your answer Lester. You can detail what you've been through if you think it could help me (and others). It would be greatly appreciated.

-J