I agree with you completely man. I used to think that i had to be something im not to get the reaction from women that i wanted. I used to put them on a pedestal like you said and then now that i look back on it, i was very needy. In highschool lots of people would still invite me to parties and such because they knew me as the funny guy who could make anyone laugh.( and also my tendency to be down for whatever.) Anyhow. Starting about 3 or 4 months ago
ive been having a revelation in my life as well. Ive taken a deep look at my life and said to myself literally " What the hell do i want out of life?" And now i can say i know what i want and im working on getting to where i want to be. Im finally becoming the person that i want to be. And to be honest, it feels good. Its just a refreshing feel that hits you like a train at fullspeed. Im not going around "trying to get laid" im going out and having fun for me and ive noticed that for some reason all the girls i meet now seem to like it. Even people i knew from 2 years ago tell me i seem so different and that its good. Im not sure what that means but its a great feeling of individuality and freedom from the mass of people wandering around aimlessly not knowing what they want. I feel like ive really gotten it together and have come a long way from how i used to be. I know this may sound cliche a bit but in all honesty id like to thank vin, and orleans for their ability to be able to help people like me find their way and move on with life. Id also like to thank the people on the forums as well. A lot of you have given me great advice and i truly value and appreciate all of it.  |