I have learned alot about this particular type of interaction so maybe I can help here.
Girls nearly always will bring up something that SEEMS as if it is some sort of objection, like "i think we will be good friends" (banged a girl last week who told me this on first time we met), "I have a boyfriend", "I don't want a boyfriend", etc etc etc.....
Best thing to do is just ignore the shit out of it and "stack forward" as some would say, or just start a new topic in simple terms. Act like it didn't affect you, and continue on. At first, you probably will have to act like it didn't affect you. After you get laid after hearing her say these type of things, you will absolutely not be affected. Just ignore the shit out of these types of things, and proceed with your game, what ever that may be.
Now, there are times when she has objections that are deeply rooted, and have consequences that you must stop, and address the issue in a way that makes her feel more comfortable and secure. For instance...
"i can't do this with you, you are sleeping with my friend".. Tell her a story about how someone had sex with your friend who is a girl and how he went out and told everybody and how you think he is a jerk, and he should keep his mouth shut when having sex with girls...(credit Vin) or tell her how your mom was a single mother and you hated how guys would brag about it.
Another one is if she has kids. They will often say "My kids come first, and I need to be a good mother" or something to that affect. Start talking about how your mother was a single mom, or how much your parents didn't pay enough attention to you and you understand how it is important to raise the family right.
She will feel much more comfortable with you at this point, continue to escalate.
But as far as the "friends" and "boyfriends" shit goes, ignore the hell out of it, and run your game, and make her feel good. Hope this helps.  |