one thing that will happen over time is that you will get shit tested so much that you will learn it is no big deal, just like a dominant guy would think.
I get a kick out of it when i get shit tested, because this little girl is trying to test me, when mentally i am thinking 'what the hell can she do? little twirp!' (and i am only 5'7" and regularly get shit tested by 5'9" -5'11" girls, i love the tall ones"), it is even the more fun to tease these girls. guys will watch in amazement like your about to get your face knocked off by this girl, then she suddenly loves you to death, and the guys have no idea why you were able to get away with it. its because they are being men with pussies, and they can't do it because it wouldn't be congruent.
I tease back with her on shit tests, i am unaffected, because i know why she is doing it. i am a little bit extroverted,but i am fun when i do it, so beware. i playfully pushed a girl on the shoulder once and said ' get outta here you dork', and my hand was kind of looking gay when i did it. So she said ' i know you didn't just push me like a gay dude?', and i said in a gay voice (as i was doing it again
, and said "yeah, and if my boyfriend was here he'd do it to....beeooocchhh!). Balsy indeed, but she lit up with laughter and gave me a hug in front of her friends and told them she loved me to death. I am not sure what "theory" is going on behind the scenes, but I do know i was unaffected, and had fun with it, and the coin turned my way. she saw right away , that i was going to be me, no matter what she does, and she liked it i guess??