lots of great advice here thanks guys. i get the mindset. being indifferent, not needy, giver her space, but keep escalating. should i pull the 'lets be friends' or 'you'll make a good friend' or is that just not necessary at this point. i did make some good sexual jokes, like she was talking about one of her biggest regrets and i said 'its not an STD is it?', then 'well as long as its not an STD' in a playful manner. she knows im interested in sex. so should i pull the 'friend' thing just to throw her off and send mixed signals? |