Compliance and Value | Seduction & Dating Tips
Check that out. The most important point made, in my opinion, is when Vin talks about Value Flux and Reward Calibration, but read the whole thing.
Usually, there are some girls who have a high level of compliance to us, but there are others who don't. To overcome this problem and be on the safe side, in my opinion, would be to run a virtual compliance roleplay or use dirty compliance before requesting any specific request that involves her compliance. Vin talks about that in his sCubed CD series.
I ran into a few compliance problems on Saturday. I had this girl in isolation and started escalating, but then got cockblocked by some friends of mine. Tried to isolate her by getting her to play basketball with me. I picked up a basketball and got her to hold it just to test her compliance. I ran a virtual compliance technique and made the request to play basketball, but she didn't say anything. I used another technique for compliance I learned from Swingcat, but still no budge. I went to play basketball and came back to get her to play with me. This time she came. After the game we chilled by a truck and I started to escalate again, which no one could see. I had been getting the boyfriend objection and I got it again while in isolation by the truck. I used a technique by Swinggcat and got her to admit that she cheated on her boyfriend. I tried to pull her by my car near my house, but she didn't budge. I froze her out and she re-initiated conversation. Long story short, I got her to sit down with me at my friend's front porch and I got cockblocked again and then shortly after a friend of hers came to pick her up. Some logistics just can't be controlled.
What kind of compliance requests are you making? Are you shaping her compliance to you?
If you are using techniques to create intrigue and she starts asking about you or what your name is, that is a good indicator that your compliance requests will actually be accepted.
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Originally Posted by Vin DiCarlo  A couple other things are worth mention. Asking a person to do something, and having them reject you puts your value into flux. (We'll talk about value flux a little later, when we discuss application) When a person declines your compliance request, it is not necessarily because they perceive your value as being low it it usually just because they aren't sure what your value is yet. Look at a rejection as an opportunity.
When your request is rejected, your value is in flux, and it is an opportunity for you to define it with your subsequent actions.
For instance, if you go to kiss a girl, and she rejects you, it's not necessarily because she perceives your value as being low. It is simply because she's not sure. If you go and try to kiss her again, right away, you may lose some points with her. If you get angry or upset, or otherwise deflated or thrown off your game, you will certainly lose value. If, on the other hand you are cool and nonchalant about it, or you humorously tease her and joke about it, your perceived value will increase. At that point, you can safely try again at a later time and your chances of getting the kiss will have improved.
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