When you're not looking for just ass, not that, that's wrong. You start looking for things, you ask yourself
"am I really having fun with this person?"
"what's so cool about her?"
"Do I like her views on things?"
but then again if you wanna fuck and NSA, I do at time, there's nothing wrong with that either, that's ok.
one good point in the email was that, when Vin talked about what's not chemistry, chemistry is not wanting to be with the hottest girl. Rang a bell for me. And I know we all been there before. You see the pretty girl in class, at the gym, at work, and you have to have her, well because genetically speaking she can offer you the most attracted kids than other women in the joint. And the only way to get her, is to know what to do and to not even be in that mindset of "I have to have her."