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Originally Posted by Shuai_Ge  This sort of ties into my "bragging" post.
How do you talk about your life and vibe yet create intrigue? How do you express yourself without giving too much away? |
I think most of the answers you've been getting have been pretty vague, but at the same time very useful. I think the context you're asking the question is when you are interacting with a woman in the beginning of a PU. Am I right?
Of course I am. I'm never wrong.
Okay, so if you want to create intrigue it's important to limit the amount of information you give. For example, I was at a nice little upscale bar last Saturday and I was interacting with the attractive bar tender there. The conversation we were having was about smoking mary jane. I says to her, "Yeah, I gotta stay clean 'cause the career I'm in isn't working out and I just had an interview at another job and I got's to take a pee test.".
So as you can see I'm still situationally relevant to the topic at hand while maintaining intrigue. It's funny 'cause this chicks got game too and she was leaving some open loops for me too, but the lesson here is to limit the information you're giving out and get her to "bite the bait".
Intrigue can be created in many ways. It can be created mostly through personal experiences. Here are two more examples.
Let's say you're trying to cold read a girl, but you want to create intrigue maybe you could say, "You know you're not like most girls. There's something about you that I've noticed, but if I were to tell you, you might not take me serious or you might get a big head.".
Let's say you or the girl bring up the topic of dancing. Maybe you could say, "Oh my God! I had a bad experience with a dance partner one time. I'm still kind of embarrassed about the whole thing.". This actually gives you an opportunity to DISPLAY things about yourself, like dancing, without bragging.
I have a routine story that I use quite often to display things about myself without bragging. I call it the "dip routine". I only use it when it's situationally relevant. I dated a salsa dancer some time ago. I took one of her classes just so I could have a better time when her and I go dancing, but I think I may have made a mistake by doing so. Her and the other instructors were teaching a dance move. It's called the dip. You ever heard of it? Well, basically I kind of bend her over my knee. I tried the move, but ended up dropping her. I felt pretty bad about the whole situation. I don't like to be the one at fault so I told her to lay off the burgers.
True story.