[Lester]

2 months after my 1st Month's Review.

It's the gift that keeps giving, why? Because they it doesn't give you fish, it teaches you how to fish.

after reading this book i've become totally aware of my thoughts in the present moment and how I thought about dating generally and specifically.

it's really my thoughts that we're holding me back.

For instance I'll give you something to work with right now. I'm going to admit, I was a hound. I was very sexual but in a drunk frat guy type of way. Now providing that she's drunk and horny, I can get a way with that... but i'm not settling for that.

I became aware of my thoughts when I would approach. I had this thought "wow she's really hot, I gotta fuck her."

bam, instand horn dog behavior and mentality.

now, I'll switch that to what Brian had said. He said figure out what makes her tick. So my focus is "what makes her tick, what get her excited about life."

This alone changed my vibe, I'm smiling I'm being playful and I'M BEING REAL. I'm BEING GENUINE BECAUSE I WANT TO KNOW ABOUT HER. THE PART OF HER THAT'S MOST EXCITED ABOUT LIFE.

And when the time comes to be sexual it wont be like a frat guy whose drunk. Because I've changed my focus when it came to that as well. I changed the way I thought.

Craig aka El Cuchillo were talking about this the other day and I realized there were two ways to escalate with a sexual vibe.

1) Like a drunk Frat guy,

2) Playfully

In my head I knew you had to be playful but my focus was wrong... So I changed that as well... and when I smile at a woman it makes her intrigue and my sexual vibe is there.

Now I'm going to tell you about the media... I'm really pissed right now about how society conditions you to believe that sex for a man means he's getting lucky, That's total bullshit!!! It should be, that we're giving our sex to women who deserve it!

And With confidence in your sexuality and the right focus you'll wonder why the fuck did you ever believe that having sex meant you got lucky. With the right focus and confidence you'll behave in a way that says "my sex is a gift" because one it's true and now, you're showing it.

Be Aware of your focus.

It's really HOW YOU THINK!!!!!!