Hell yeah, man! Push/Pull works all the time. I literally use it in my interactions like it's a normal thing.
I also like to use flirtacious remarks followed with takeaways. I learned this from Juggler. He says most guys use sarcasm to flirt with girls, but he prefers something different. I forgot what he calls it, but an example I like to use quite frequently is, "Damn, Girl! I'm having a good time with you and it's becoming very annoying. You're gonna have to leave now! I can't stand having a great time with you!", while pointing to the door with a big smile.
It's your basic push/pull, but with a twist. Great stuff.
I'm learning how to use Swingcat's techniques on Hardcore push/pull, which I'm getting the hang of, but want more practice for proper calibration. Swingcat calls it compliancy triggers, but sexual frames, in his opinion, work even better.
Sonic gives a perfect example of sexual framing in his field report. It worked for him very well because he used it at the right time and it got him the compliance he was looking for, which ultimately led to his intended outcome.
If anything, it all comes down to logistics, which can usually be a bitch. What you think?
Last edited by rarebreed : 07-19-2008 at 10:39 PM.
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