Zen style approach | | My friends, I have a 4-5 year experience sarging (-1.5 yrs LTR) . Never became a good PUA tough.
My numbers are still mostly from luck , I have learned a great deal about theory but never felt I became a really alpha guy(if there´s such a thing).
I look good am tall ,blonde, skinny, actually a lot of girls look at me wanting to be approached, daily...
My problem comes from my personality, I come from a german (almost nazi) family and my parents were very cold, violent and silent, had to take a lot of shit trough highschool because my family were constantly on the move (13 different schools).
I'm not a charismatic guy , I think people think I judge them , and I really do but now I'm trying to see the good in them and help them feel positive about themselves but sometimes I don't know how. I'm increasing my social network , I am buliding a lot of connections , talking to everybody in my city, altough sometimes I feel awkward, but socializing is being OK , I definetly feel it's helping my life.I'm also trying to find passions in my life and develop a better life plan so I think I'm slowly taking care of that. But now lets get to the source of my problems...
I have a little beef with the natural method...because what I really wanted to do is go straight for the kino and almost rape the girl(I'm not a psycho, or am I...) that would be natural FOR ME... saying:- Hi , I'm Dan... and then escalte ??? . I DON'T MASTURBATE much so I'm extremely horny always ...
What I meant by Zen Approach is that my personality is somewhat laconic , I don't LIKE talking, telling stories much especially to someone I don't know ... maybe just C&F I find it fun , comes easy when I've been rejected in the previous sets I develop a really vendetta mindset (sometimes I can't help it , testosterone surge).
Can I say Hi to a girl and just stare at her and wait for her to initiate something or fill the blanks? Can I just go for the C&F and then ask her number cold?NO STORIES ... I know Vin said time ain't an issue I'm an extreme fella. 30 sec ok ???
Last edited by Sharkman : 07-24-2008 at 08:47 PM.
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