[El Galan]

after reading and re-reading the attraction code, I have been pondering the same thing.

from what I understand, you're intention should be that of dominance. Vin tells us what a dominant man does to achieve this. you're intention then is to BE it- Focus on it. Don't try, just DO (if you focus well enough on it).

anybody care to give me some feedback on this?

I have put a lot of thought into some ideas regarding focus, if anybody wants to go into it further and give me your ideas, please feel free to shoot me a message .

Edit: I have decided not to wait and just go ahead and post what I think.

I think that intentions can be changed, and that there is no one intention to focus on. The big one is dominance, generating allies and being the protector. In certain situations though, I think it helps to have a narrower focus. something I have tried out only twice so far is something i'm going to call for the purpose of clarity, a mini-focus(mf). A mini-focus is an idea of or image of something that you focus on for a quick boost of whatever you want more of.
for example, I went camping recently with a bunch of people, and there was this girl who was VERY geek, but also very cute. I decided to put my idea into action, so i took a second to think of what I wanted to convey/be. I wanted to be playfully flirtatious, so what I did then was visualize myself and applied my idea of playful flirtatiousness to myself the resulting image was me being being playful and flirtatious- my mf.

Most people's idea of playfulness is someone who likes to have fun.
Most people's idea of flirtatiousness is someone who is smooth(this may vary, these are just my ideas). you apply these ideas to yourself and visualize yourself as someone who flirts and is playful, then simply focus on this idea, this image of yourself. This is your mf. what you will find is that in order to become your image you must change the way you act in those moments when you first start focusing. This should happen very easily. If you can image yourself being what you want, then the change is inevitable as long as you maintain focus.
on an additional note, beside visualizing this quick mf, it helps to try and feel it also. see your face and your demeanor in your head. and focus!

THanks, thats my 50 cents. I would greatly appreciate your feedback.

Ninja Edit: thinking of it now, maybe this focus isn't so mini, as being something like playfully flirtatious also conveys dominance, especially when part your idea of playfulness and flirtatiousness involves the DEL. ( Thank God i can finally stop typing...playfully...Arr..flirtatious....)