[Pupilofsex]

I don't want to break the forum rules here or nothing by not contributing something positive and rehashing some mundane questions, but the little things do baffle, and this is one of them.

Im soon to set my approach goals and before I do, this waitress whom Ive known for off and on for 9 months gives me her number about a week ago.

Here is the story. There is this 33 year old single somewhat hottie waitress (no kids if that matters) who I made a great connection with. We would talk, chit chat, bullshit about whatever for 30 minutes (especially on a slow night).

I could tell she has the hots for me but I never capitalized on it (which was my mistake for not taking advantage of oppurtunities when they present themselves as described on Vin's product and here...but I always looked at her as a very nice waitress..and no more)


She bumps into me after work as I was walking around the casino and says.."hmmph.......just give me your phone number already" She gives me a hug prior to this. Im feeling good about this. We exchange numbers. Told her not to call me since I lost my cell (which I bought a few days later anyway).
Called her left a voicemail a few days later (mistake number two, waiting too long to call). Think she was at work. Met her at work while I was eating and said that her phone wasnt working for not paying bill or something like that.

I said Ill call her a few days later. I did. Left a voicemail and text telling her to get back to me. She hasn't.

Now even when I was half way decent playing the game about a year or so ago, this was one of my sticking points. Im good when I meet the girl and get things going, but phone game has been my sticking point. Ive been listening to Vin's Phone Game section and learning stuff, but I still don't get this (well...I may).

Especially when a girl GAVE me her number and was excited to see me. Only thing I can think of is not me capitalizing right away and that maybe after she gave me her number she said to herself "did I just throw myself at him? how embarrasing. now im going to play a little hard to get."

Dont know. One thing I do know is that I need lots of improvement and need to improve on set up/phone game.

And no, this is not a pre one-itis type of thing, lol. This area has been a weakpoint of mine. Laterz