[sam]

hello

I read an article about this from the approach:
I could help you. I had the same problem like you before,this
helped me:

It's no secret that girls love text messaging. Especially cutegirls. You can see them click-click-clicking away on their cellphones, texting like crazy (or, 'SMS'ing for all y'all Europeancats). Men typically don't like it. But after today, you will. The reason? Texting makes it easier for you to get women, andcommunicate with them. The great thing about texting is that a textis not a yes/no proposition. You want to give women opportunities to say yes to you WITHOUTforcing them to say no. Texting is better than calling a girlbecause a girl will always read a text message. If a girl gets acall from you, and doesn't answer, it bodes poorly for you. It'swhat we call "rejected compliance" - you're effectively asking forsomething (for her to answer her phone) just by calling. If she sees her phone ringing and doesn't answer, it's like shewent against what you were after. No good. Texting solves that problem - it also lets girls who are interestedshow it without forcing girls who aren't interested to say no. I text every girl in my phone every 3-4 days. The texts are justfun, show a little of my personality, and fill the girls in onwhat's going on in my life. I write the texts for myself, because Ilike to - NOT to impress or please her. And I NEVER ask for aresponse, or ask a question. I give opportunities to respondwithout making her feel bad or like she's going against what I wantby not responding. I sent texts like: After first meeting a girl:GOOD: so fun to make new friends GOOD: u are such a sweetheart! thanks for sharing umbrullaGOOD: ur the cutest thing ever. happy i met u BAD: cool meeting u. what u doing thurs?BAD: want to hang on fri? To keep in touch:GOOD: i just got the most fly pair of jeans ever for $12. i'm pumpedGOOD: so warm out! it's cowboy hat weatherGOOD: my puppy is ridiculousBAD: whats going on?BAD: havent talked to u in a while. whats up?BAD: hey whats new To invite her to spend time with you:GOOD: hitting the museum fine art on tues. buzz me if you get in anartistic moodGOOD: if u have a lot of energy after work, we're salsaing and u'dfit right in.GOOD: u totally have to meet my friend maria. u two are likesisters seperated at birthBAD: want to come to museum on tues?BAD: we're going salsa dancing tonight, want to come? After spending time with her:GOOD: had so much fun. *hugs*GOOD: i'm safe, warm, & happy. mmm sleep tight darlinGOOD: u are way too nice i had so much funBAD: did u have fun?BAD: are you home yet? Leave those questions alone! Ask questions only after you get intoa texting "back and forth" conversation, and even then, onlysparingly. But DO text - My rule is I do not call a girl until shehas returned at least one text. It saves a lot of time too. Learnto love it, fellas.


greetz SAM