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Old 08-11-2008, 12:59 PM
Zenmind Zenmind is offline
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Default Modeling an alpha man is like building a persona?

Natural game is about developing an attractive identity and expressing freely this identity, without fear or shame right?

Modeling an "alpha male", his behaviours, beliefs and mindsets and testing this model in the field to get positive reinforcement through the feedback of every interaction, is to be considered a development for your personality? Can someone learn to "be alpha" through osmosis?

Building an Attractive Personality

I mean, if you get this insights on a product and internalize them through experience, are you developing your personality or adopting an "alpha" persona?

My opinion: sure, you may get some inspiration and initially your confidence is sky high with this "alpha" model in your head. But probably you will only end stuck in your head with very little attention available for the actual interaction. You can catch yourself thinking "what an alpha man would do in this situation?" which is a bad focus, instead of "what I would do?".
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