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Old 08-11-2008, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Lester View Post
in actually I model people and make it my own. I pick people brain and I say, what would he do, mostly what would he be thinking? Im not trying to be who he is, I'm being me still. becuase I made it my own.

"what would a alpha man do in this situation" isn't so bad, but it would be more productive to think what is his focus an adapt that focus.

maybe his focus for initial interactions are "what makes her tick" or "what's cool about her." and have that focus as well.
In other words: when you are developing your personality, and when instead you are just picking a persona? What is the difference between someone that's just pretending to be alpha and someone else that are enhancing his personality?
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