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Originally Posted by Zenmind  In other words: when you are developing your personality, and when instead you are just picking a persona? What is the difference between someone that's just pretending to be alpha and someone else that are enhancing his personality? |
Think about like this - what can you take from this person and model, and then cultivate that natural quality within ourself - we dont want to lay things over the top like a bandaid - we want it to come from the inside out.
I personally am a huge Brad Pitt fan, I like to watch and model his very laid back actions - especially in The Oceans series and then ask myself - what is his focus here - what is he believeing about himself to act this way, what is he doing on the inside to replicate this? Theres a deeper level than just actions
cultivate the natural parts of yourself that are in accordance with what you wanna model - they are there...